Special blog post for the end of SAAM.

With the end of sexual assault awareness month being today, we wanted to do something special. These are words, from others survivors or just people who care, FOR YOU!

-Katie and Britt.

"It is not your fault and you are not alone. Keeping silent won't make it go away. You are so much stronger than you think. You survived your ordeal and you WILL make it through recovery. Just remember that there are people who are and want to help, part of the journey is helping to lift each other up, to help each other find our voice so we can finally face the world around us and say "no more"."

-NightxVision on tumblr

"You are worth the fight to overcome this. Healing is possible, as is leading a life of possibility, hope, and joy. Although it may not seem like it now, it's going to get better. You're going to get stronger, and you'll bloom into a glorious flower. In the words of Maya Angelou, like dust, YOU will rise."

-Nicole

"To those victims coping with sexual assault,

Please remember that it was not your fault, regardless of

what you were wearing, and where you were wearing at the time.

Remember that we all have free will, that people make choices, and that the perpetrator made a decision to commit a crime

and a sin at the moment he/she chose to victimize you.

The crime of sexual assault cannot go unpunished. Its crime, there is a victim or victims, who suffer, sometimes for years, sometimes for the rest of their lives.

It is particularly disturbing when their is a child chosen as a victim. Education and societal retribution must be part of a solution.

It is NEVER right to force anyone to do anything against their wishes."

-Dori

Love and hugs to everyone. Thank you for being brave! And take gentle care!!!!

-Katie

Comments

The number will never be enough.

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Tara's story.

" Here is my story of how I grew up in a home that was surrounded by domestic violence. Growing up was crazy for me. My parents always argued. Before I was born my mother and real father used to fight always according to what my mother told me and what my sister and brother witnessed. But after I was born my father stuck around until I was like 2 or 3. That's when my stepfather began raising me. After that my mother and he would always argue. They got physical with each other. They got to the point where my mother would get a knife and try to hurt my stepfather. I remember one time she chased him down the stair and in order to escape from her, he jumped out the window and broke his leg. This happened when I was younger. She has had so much anger in her we didn’t know where it came from. There were other times where she got angry at me and threw figurines at me. One Thanksgiving Day I wanted to spend it at my sister house, this was when I was in middle school, and my mother wok...

Psych appointment

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